Welcome to Aramco and Dhahran. There are better ways once here to reach people than the forum. Get involved in self directed groups, a list should have been in your house upon arrival. If not pick up a copy in Al Mujamma at the CIC Office to the left of the post office, if facing it.
If your wife is here (possibly from your username), then have her join the Women's Group - on the phone list in your home and ask a lady she meets to add her to the private ladies only Dhahran Ladies fb page. She has to live here to be added.
Also ask co-workers. You may have to speak German to those here from Germany.